The Truth Is Women Lie Better

Let’s be honest, the truth is—women lie about a lot of things. We lie about our age, size, weight, and number of sexual partners. We often pretend that we are fulfilled sexually when we are not. We avoid telling our…

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love language

What’s Your Love Language?

Have you ever wondered if you could do a specific continued task to keep your spouse, children, parents and self-happy? You can, but first, you should learn how they (You) love. Yes, it sounds mediocre “How do they love” but…

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Has Dating Become A Free-For All?

“Anxiety is loves greatest killer. It creates the failures.” – Anais Nin   This time last year, I wrote the following in my journal: ‘Dating literally drains me. I don’t like it. I know it sounds crazy, but that whole…

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Kelis’s Open Letter About Nas

These days, nothing surprises me about celebrities. I’ve come to understand they are human—just like everyone else. Still, every now and then, a little shock and surprise slips through the cracks—one being the violent streak embodied by Nasir Jones. With…

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Saying Goodbye To Cuffing Season

It’s that time of year again! The days are longer, the flowers are in bloom, and the sun comes out more. At one point, you had texts coming in faster than you could respond. But now, your cellphone begins to…

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Opinion, Relationships

Ain’t I A Woman?

“Dat man ober dar say dat womin needs to be helped into carriages, and lifted ober ditches, and to hab de best place everywhar. Nobody eber halps me into carriages, or ober mudpuddles, or gibs me any best place!” –…

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7 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS Save your relationship myths, because I don’t want to hear it! Remember when meeting people online had that persona, that only lame and desperate people who weren’t cool enough in person dated online? Well, times…

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Culture, Lifestyle, Miscellaneous

Cacoethes | The Switch

cac·o·e·thes/ˌkakōˈēT͟Hēz/ Noun: An insatiable desire;  An irresistible urge to do something inadvisable; Lifestyle critic/columnist Shai Clark   “Excuse me, my friend and I we about to order a round of drinks and we would love it if you joined us.” Now…

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